Dilemma for going for a second child or not
It is not only difficult but almost impossible to take decision of the question, "Whether we should go for another child or not". This question is so difficult as there are many questions that are lined up right behind it.
Having another child not only is addition to your family but changing the dynamic of the family over all. You have to take care of your lifestyle, if you are a working mom then about your job, your expence, relationship and yes not forgetting your first child who is habituated as the only child and is pampered accordingly. Besides, opinion doesnt cost anything and is available free from market from each and everyone.
So, if you are planning for another child then you should take certain care and plan it accordingly to not mess up everything at a later stage. gaping of age is most important factor. Some believe that you should go for another child with a age gap of 2 or 2 years while others believe that a gap of 5 or more is vital. Difference of 5 years would help the first child to give enough space to grow up and beside you would also get proper time to think and plan everything for another child.
Big gap will not give two in diapers at the same time ;).
Another most important factor is age of parents while conceiving. At an older age of parents, there are several chances of child not taken proper care of. Factors like age of parents, child disability due to more age of conceiving mother, more gap between two children affects a lot.
Agreement between you and your partner is the ultimate decision. You have to listen to your heart and think whether you really want to go for another child.
Small children are fascinating and you would really want to go for another, but at the same time you should also be ready to face the consequences that come with that little bundle of joy!
Having another child not only is addition to your family but changing the dynamic of the family over all. You have to take care of your lifestyle, if you are a working mom then about your job, your expence, relationship and yes not forgetting your first child who is habituated as the only child and is pampered accordingly. Besides, opinion doesnt cost anything and is available free from market from each and everyone.
So, if you are planning for another child then you should take certain care and plan it accordingly to not mess up everything at a later stage. gaping of age is most important factor. Some believe that you should go for another child with a age gap of 2 or 2 years while others believe that a gap of 5 or more is vital. Difference of 5 years would help the first child to give enough space to grow up and beside you would also get proper time to think and plan everything for another child.
Big gap will not give two in diapers at the same time ;).
Another most important factor is age of parents while conceiving. At an older age of parents, there are several chances of child not taken proper care of. Factors like age of parents, child disability due to more age of conceiving mother, more gap between two children affects a lot.
Agreement between you and your partner is the ultimate decision. You have to listen to your heart and think whether you really want to go for another child.
Small children are fascinating and you would really want to go for another, but at the same time you should also be ready to face the consequences that come with that little bundle of joy!
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